augustburntbread asked: Definitely join the tour for the NC dates - I'll be there! I have a question though, pretty serious. My closest girl friend (who I've had feelings for at one point - she's aware of this), is so distant now, since she has a boyfriend of roughly four months. She's currently gone over a week without talking to me (we live in different towns), and that's never happened before. I always make it a point to show her how much I care for her, but it just hurts me that she can't do the same anymore.
Yeah, that’s tough. It’s most likely because she’s in a relationship now and she’s distancing herself out of respect for her boyfriend. And if you’ve had feelings for her in the past, that could make them both feel pretty uncomfortable if you two are communicating a lot. That’s my guess, anyhow. Unfortunately, the only thing you can do is this situation is respect her decision to take her space. I know that’s not what you want to hear, but your only other option is to stalk her down and I’m fairly certain that wouldn’t end well :(